Monday, January 17, 2011

Sometimes thoughts are better understood on paper.


So many people that I know, try so hard to express themselves through self adoration and greed, which is fueled by the materialistic world we live in called life.
I to love the finer things in life and appreciated the feel of a Custom Italian Suit, the attention you get driving a $100k automobile and the way a $10k watch makes you feel. But, in reality none of this really matters on your judgement day. I also know the difference between right or wrong, rich or poor and what truly matters in life. More importantly is the way you feel when your 9 month old son gives you a big hug after a long day at the office, how gratifying it is to make an honest living and put a 110% into everything you do in life. Last but not least, use diligence in every aspect of your life.
People who do not love themselves can adore others, because adoration is making someone else big and ourselves small. They can desire others, b/c desire comes out of a sense of inner incompleteness, which demands to be filled. But they cannot love others, b/c love is an affirmation of the living, growing being in all of us. If you don’t have it, you can’t give it.
No one can take the risk out of love; you are offering yourself, and you can always be rejected. But when people who know themselves love, they don’t risk their whole identity. BUT, if someone looks to another for an identity, losing that person would destroy him/her.
I wouldn’t want a life without love in it. But love is not always there, and how you feel about yourself the times there isn’t someone around to receive and return your love has a lot to do with how rewarding the experience of love is when you have it.

Is love Circular in the sense that the same emotions and issues arise time after time?

Written by David T Pachkofsky
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1 comment:

  1. KEEP ON TRUCKIN BRO!!The people that care about you, will always be there if need them...peace

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