Monday, January 17, 2011
Sometimes thoughts are better understood on paper.
So many people that I know, try so hard to express themselves through self adoration and greed, which is fueled by the materialistic world we live in called life.
I to love the finer things in life and appreciated the feel of a Custom Italian Suit, the attention you get driving a $100k automobile and the way a $10k watch makes you feel. But, in reality none of this really matters on your judgement day. I also know the difference between right or wrong, rich or poor and what truly matters in life. More importantly is the way you feel when your 9 month old son gives you a big hug after a long day at the office, how gratifying it is to make an honest living and put a 110% into everything you do in life. Last but not least, use diligence in every aspect of your life.
People who do not love themselves can adore others, because adoration is making someone else big and ourselves small. They can desire others, b/c desire comes out of a sense of inner incompleteness, which demands to be filled. But they cannot love others, b/c love is an affirmation of the living, growing being in all of us. If you don’t have it, you can’t give it.
No one can take the risk out of love; you are offering yourself, and you can always be rejected. But when people who know themselves love, they don’t risk their whole identity. BUT, if someone looks to another for an identity, losing that person would destroy him/her.
I wouldn’t want a life without love in it. But love is not always there, and how you feel about yourself the times there isn’t someone around to receive and return your love has a lot to do with how rewarding the experience of love is when you have it.
Is love Circular in the sense that the same emotions and issues arise time after time?
Written by David T Pachkofsky
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Sometimes you just have to take a step back...
- Have you ever had someone say something to you that made you step back and look at what your doing? You realize that you've been going down the wrong path. If it wasn't for that one person to step up and point out what your doing you may never figure it out.
At least 2 people in this world LOVE you so much they would die for you. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way * THE ONLY REASON ANYONE WOULD EVER HATE YOU, IS BECAUSE THEY WANT TO BE JUST LIKE YOU * *A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you .Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep. You mean the world to someone If not for you, someone may not be living .You are special and unique. Someone that you don't even know exists, loves you . When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it *When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world . When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you BELIEVE in yourself, probably, sooner or later, you will get it . Always remember the compliments you received. FORGET about the rude remarks. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great. . . . .
If it wasnt for the special people in my life that have helped me along the way to see things the way God intended us to see them I would not be where I am today. Thank you mom and dad.
It is said that true love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done and you have been blessed! The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that true love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. (somebody supposedly able to see things beyond the range of normal human vision.)
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done and you have been blessed! The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that true love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. (somebody supposedly able to see things beyond the range of normal human vision.)
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
My favorite Poem: Footprints in the Sand
My favorite Poem
Footprints in the Sand
One night a man had a dream that he was
Walking along the beach with the Lord.
Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each
Scene, he noticed two sets
Of footprints in the sand; one belonging to him, the
Other belonging to the Lord.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he
Looked back at the
Footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times
Along the path of his life
There was only one set of footprints, and that it
Happened at the very lowest
And saddest times in his life
This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord
About it.
"Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you,
You'd walk with me all the way.
But during the most troublesome times in my life,
There is only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why when I needed you most,
You would leave me."
The Lord replied, "My precious, precious child. I love
You, David, and I would never
Leave you. During your times of trial and suffering,
When you see only one set of
Footprints, it was then that I carried you."
Footprints in the Sand
One night a man had a dream that he was
Walking along the beach with the Lord.
Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each
Scene, he noticed two sets
Of footprints in the sand; one belonging to him, the
Other belonging to the Lord.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he
Looked back at the
Footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times
Along the path of his life
There was only one set of footprints, and that it
Happened at the very lowest
And saddest times in his life
This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord
About it.
"Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you,
You'd walk with me all the way.
But during the most troublesome times in my life,
There is only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why when I needed you most,
You would leave me."
The Lord replied, "My precious, precious child. I love
You, David, and I would never
Leave you. During your times of trial and suffering,
When you see only one set of
Footprints, it was then that I carried you."
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
WHO IS DAVID PACHKOFSKY
I am an individual that makes decisions based on my gut feeling and impulsivity. I'm an extremely driven person and always make sure I have something in my life to look forward to. Having a positive attitude is important to me and in order for me to maintain this, I make sure I surround myself with positive energy at all times. I dislike negativity very much. I always trys to make the best out of every situation. I see the glass as half full. I'm the first person to lend you my hand if you need some support but have trouble accepting handouts in return. I'm self employeed which gives me the flexibility to enjoy my favorite past-time, traveling. I'm originally from Minnesota and moved to Newport Beach almost 10 years ago. I'm very close with my parents whom I look up to very much. They have instilled the values that I live by. We always make time to get together over the holidays and take family vacations. I was raised in a very down to earth family which reminds me to never forget my roots. The personal image I portray to others is important to me, but it doesn't come close to the level of self-respect I have for the image I carry of myself as an individual. I believe most of that comes from whats on the inside not on the outside. I pride myself on being different and unique in my own special way. Having good style portrays confidence and helps me express my personality without saying a thing. I think first impressions are very important. Every relationship needs to start somewhere. I live my life based on one rule and thats to always try to be nice to every person I meet regardless of how they treat me. I take my business very seriously but I always make sure to take plenty of time to enjoy life. I try to put a lot of time and effort into my endeavors right now and focus on "me" while I still can. Five years from now, I hope to let my present accomplishments work for me, so I wont have to work at all and I can shift my focus to raising a family.
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